He wants you to constantly tell him he's shit and doesn't want to hear anything negative about himself. He wants to be called The Man of the Hour, every hour on the hour. He will even go so far as to force you to call him nicknames you don't want, for example: Big Daddy, Big Willy, SuperMan, Master, you get the idea. • He makes you do things you don't want to do: He always wants you to do things for him. He also likes to be held all the time. He wants you to cook for him all the time. He's kind of a big kid. • Arguing: A man starting an argument is a clear sign of insecurity and the need for attention. Confident kids who can stand on their own two feet don't start fights all day over absolutely minor things. • No friends or family: If this man has no friends or family, or has a bad relationship with these people, then this is a bad sign that he is a guy in need of your attention. He may tell you sob stories about how his family mistreated him and how he can't trust his friends. He wants you, in a way, to be his family and his friend. So, it will need your full attention. The truth is, there are actually some issues with him personality-wise. He might actually be a bad person. There's a reason he's bossing everyone around