First of all, I believe it is one of the most effective ways to achieve rational happiness. While it's not one of the easiest ways to achieve our happiness, it takes time to achieve and it's worth it. I firmly believe that our happiness comes before others. If we didn't pursue our own personal interests, I feel we would be sad and almost resentful of ourselves and might change the way we treat others. If my life's ambition was to become a singer but someone told me I couldn't do it, should I listen to them and shatter my ideals because of someone else's opinion? There is a chance I will fail and my dreams will be shattered, what do I do? Should I give up? An example like that would make someone feel doubtful and scared and ultimately resent that person for holding themselves back from what they wanted to do. Instead, we should continue to strive and pursue our goals, regardless of what others say. I feel that ethical selfishness gives you a mental reminder to believe in yourself and overcome all obstacles that come your way. According to Tara Smith, in the book Viable Values, she recognizes that humans need to thrive because life depends on actions that help sustain a person's motivation to engage in pro-life actions such as growth and strength, which are essential for