The stereotypical "butch" and "femme" pairing is often found to be more visible than other lesbian relationships. However, this does not mean that they do not exist. The ever-increasing popularity of the lesbian social sphere has symbolized both the difficulties and effects of identifying with that label. The label or identity itself, while clearly separating lesbians from “normal” heterosexuals, begins to show a pre-existing conflict experienced by gay males: “there has always been something wrong (Aldrich, 38).” This quote implies the conditioned and ingrained belief that the "taboo" existence of homosexuality was more than simply wrong, but unpleasant and something that society should despise as an "abnormality". At times, this social reality for lesbians made it difficult for them to “come out” and be visible. This experience is exemplified as “The repressed lesbian has a more difficult time, because she is less aware of her abnormality (Aldrich, 41).” Furthermore, being able to clearly and accurately identify “the lesbian means meeting up close the numerous women she is with; see her in her various backgrounds, hear her various voices, and become familiar with the different facades of her many lives (Aldrich, 42).” Here the presence of the “double life” is demonstrated to further analyze the lack of privileges enjoyed by the lesbian community, including the social aspect of their lives.