Marriage is pretty much something everyone dreams of. Most girls at the age of 12 have already decided in every detail what the perfect day will be. I remember playing games as children where one game would determine our future and what our lives would be like. Of course life has changed and we are faced with the reality of what it takes to survive in a relationship. We grew up knowing that it takes a lot more work than a piece of paper and someone you know to determine your future. And that you will have to be with this person for the rest of your life. With divorce rates nearly double the marriage rate, some people still fail to grasp the reality of the work and dedication it takes to get married. Our world seems to advance one's personal growth at the cost of marriage. Very few people are even happy, says a survey conducted in XXL. They stay in those relationships because of financial situations or children's obligations instead of addressing their internal feelings. Sometimes people think that supporting a child's cause is a good reason to stay in a relationship. I think otherwise just makes people completely bitter towards each other. Your children are drawn into disputes with people they both love dearly. You should immediately end any relationship that you may feel is harmful to you or your spouse. On the other hand, some marriages are not likely to be divine destiny. They always say there is someone for everyone. Do you meet someone who makes you think "Have you finally met that person you've always dreamed of?" The person you can see yourself with for the rest of your life. So many things go through your mind about this person that you can stop thinking about it and count the time until you see them again. You must be in love. I say that being in love with someone and loving someone are two different things. Being in love with someone means thinking about that person all the time, talking about them all the time, and wanting to be with you all the time, while loving someone is something you choose to do when you want to do it.